"A shift happens when you start allowing others to be who they are, and yourself to be who you are - You’ll find that the load you’re carrying begins to lighten - Lesser resentments, opinions, assumptions and judgments. Serendipity may become a constant companion, because in accepting and allowing ‘what is’, the focus on thoughts of shouldn’t and couldn’t, begins to dissipate, and in this, you start allowing Source to flow freely - You start changing the game….Unburden yourself and be amazed."
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You start changing the game, indeed. If there’s even a “you” at all.
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please reblog if you support the rights of sex workers
Yesterday I was pleasantly surprised to see that one of my favourite Tumblr bloggers supports the rights of sex workers. This isn’t something I see too much around here, so if you are a current or former sex worker, or if you are an ally that blogs about the issues and politics surrounding sex work, please reblog so that I can find you. :)
Sláinte!
Laurel
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Reblog if you are a sugar baby or sugar daddy.
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Bonnaroo and New SD Riz
He’s an Italian designer, married, shorter than I’d like, but I can tell that he’s a good guy. I met him to solidify our arrangement today and he already started suggesting gift ideas. Not as much Denaro as I would like… but he’ll be a good replacement for Pierre. I’m going to see Pierre two more times because I have a couple of things that I need to pay off and then I’m cutting the cord. Just the thought of him and his neediness irks the hell out of me. Once tomorrow and then again on Tuesday and then I’m rinsing him from my thoughts because I’ll be off to Tennessee! I’m going with my beautiful boyfriend to Bonnaroo Music Festival! I’m sooo excited to see Radiohead live. Plus I just found out that a good friend of ours who works for a record label is giving us his VIP tickets because he can’t make it down :D
So we’ll be scalping our old general admin tickets of course. Bonnaroo for free suckers!
In other sugar news:
I’ve been going on so many dates these last couple weeks with POTs and nothing is panning out. One Pot propositioned me to join his “friend’s” escort business, another one wouldn’t stop texting me. Seriously a text every hour or so and each one with at least 3 exclamation points. I had to put a stop to that shyt with the quickness. I met this one POT from CL who doesn’t like allowances but is offering to help me move into a new apartment and pay the rent. He says he’s looking for a girlfriend though. Even though he’s married and not planning to leave his wife. He stresses the connection and love that he hopes to find and blah blah blah. He claims he’s not possessive but at one point he mentioned that he’s not being sure how he’d react down the road if I told him I fell for another person and wanted to call the arrangement off. That definitely rubbed me the wrong way because hello— I already do have a boyfriend who I love with all of my heart. I’m not interested in “stressed”, which is what I will be if I had to actively hide my relationship with my boyfriend from an overbearing SD.
But I told him I’d think about it…
And maybe I should think about it because recently I’ve been feeling like my standards are too high…. like Mr V and Perla have spoiled me and now I’m not remotely interested in simple gift daddies or men that are too emotionally involved/lonely. But on the other end I know that I definitely need a low maintenance SD. This new guy Riz. I told him off the bat that I had a boyfriend. I know I’ll only see him once a week with a few texts sprinkled here and there. I know that he’s unobtrusive and requires very little time/energy. I know that for me this is the model sugar arrangement. Yet I’m still tempted by imperfect POTs.
The sugar bowl is tough ladies. I had this awesome newbie stroke of luck when I first started but now sugar isn’t coming as easily as it used to and honestly, I can’t help but feel crappy.
I’m just going to work at staying positive and confident and hope that the law of attraction sends a 40-50 year old, tall, European, 5G< SD my way soon :/
plussizesugarbaby asked: Weird, I actually imagined you looking similar to the girl (with the short hair). Now I feel like a creeper, lol.
Yes well I mean she still doesn’t really look like me but I guess I’m just tired of not having a doppleganger. Noone looks like me
(Source: darkskinnedblackbeauty, via afrodesiacworldwide)
This is basically how I would look with short hair… this is the only woman I’ve ever seen who I think actually favors me…
(Source: darkskinnedblackbeauty)
Anonymous asked: just remember don't turn down the game. I understand personals we all have that but don't think with your heart, think with your head.
That’s good advice.
Thanks!
Pillow Talk: Choices
Choices
I’m easing up on the sugar. I’ve lost my intensity for it at the moment. It will return but for now I need to concentrate on me. I need to get my shit sorted. Go to the gym, start riding more, see my friends more than I do and drink less when I do. I need to spend more time with my beautiful chihuahua, I need to work harder at my day job.
I need to stop talking to my ex’s, I need to stop listening to negative people, I need to stop smoking, drinking, bingeing, cussing, lying and hurting. I need to realise that I’ve made bad choices, fallen in love with the wrong people, pushed away the right people, hurt people with my words, scarred people with my actions and disappointed people with my choices.
I’m smart and beautiful and don’t have an abusive relationship anymore. I don’t have anybody holding me back, but me. So why I am letting me do that?
I guess I think If I let go, who know’s what will happen. I may be more succesful than I think I can handle. I may get hurt more than I ever have before. I may have the shit kicked out of me by love.
Or I may have the greatest fucking adventure anyone’s ever had.
Stop holding you back.